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Tobias is not enamoured with the upward creep of hemlines at black-tie events and even once – shock, horror – thongs worn with a tuxedo. "The piss has been taken out of black tie in recent years but when it comes to the most formal dress codes I'm a real stickler for tradition," he says. Seasoned society guests think about the purpose of the event, the environment and the dress code and outfit themselves appropriately. Furthermore, it’s from these glamorous black-tie affairs that fashion takes its cues. Strict dress codes rules have lowered and hem lines have risen! I am not advocating a thigh skimming lingerie inspired dress, but those in the know hopefully wouldn't dress like that to a black tie affair.
Most etiquette and fashion guides of the current decade recommend keeping colour touches and favouring a single colour, usually dark; muted reds, such as maroon, are a traditional choice. Black shoes – traditionally patent leather court shoes or pumps; now often highly polished or patent leather Oxford dress shoes instead, without brogueing. Because dress codes can be confusing (does anyone really know what lounge suit means?), we've compiled a list of the five most common, along with a description and, most importantly, examples. I think as long as you are dressed up in something you feel comfortable in, you won't feel out of place. The 'Christmas Evening Do' dresses might be in the shops now, so it might be a good time to buy something - Monsoon is often a good place to look, but many places will have suitable dresses.
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Find the hottest dress styles from satin mini slip dresses to strappy cocktail dresses. Nowadays there are plenty of red style dresses that are considered as high fashion. You should definitely avoid body-hugging fits, plunging necklines, and inappropriate fabrics, but you can definitely wear red to any black or white-tie event. This stormy blue off-the-shoulder floor-length dress is a real representative of a black-tie dress code. While some say you can wear other things rather than a dress, in most cases dresses are an obligatory part of this dress code.
When it comes to shoes, ‘cocktail’ encourages personality. Brown leather brogues always look great, as do brown or black tassel loafers. Suede loafers or Derby shoes are perfect for cocktail weddings, and look great with tonal suits like khaki, light blue, dusky pink or forest green.
How to Dress for a 'Black Tie Optional' Event
In the 1950s, some experimented with coloured and patterned jackets, cummerbunds and bow ties. The 1960s and 1970s saw the colour palette move from muted to bright day-glow and pastel, as well as ruffled-placket shirts as lapels got wider and piping was revived. The 1980s and 1990s saw a return to traditional styles, with black jackets and trousers again becoming nearly universal. Some insist the 21st century has seen increased variation and a relaxation of previous strict standards; midnight blue once again became popular and lapel facings were sometimes reduced to wide edging.
A printed invitation suggests a smarter event than a text or email. That said, nothing quite catches the eye and says sophisticated like a high neck, deep-v, off-the-shoulder, or strapless ensemble. As with all formal wear, in the weeks leading up to the wedding you’ll want to make sure that any one of these elements fits well. A high neck can be stunning and sleek—or a little awkward if it’s too loose.
What does black-tie dress code actually mean?
The first one MIGHT be too short although I wouldn't be concerned personally - but depends on "stuffiness" factor. The first blue one is possibly a bit whimsical and summery for an evening winter/autumn event. The final one looks like a wedding guest dress rather than a black tie event but I guess with lots of sparkly silver accessories could work.
You can then show off your newfound knowledge by wearing it untied at the end of the evening, shortly before reaching into your secret cigar pocket. There's also creative black tie, which means guys are still expected to wear tuxes but they can have fun with their tie selection. (If it's possible to have fun with tie selection ...) Girls can pair whatever they'd wear to a black tie wedding with funky shoes or a bold bag.
If you still have some questions about black or white tie events, check out these FAQs. In this creamy ball-gown satin dress, you will look and feel like a real princess. The color, the cut, and lace sleeves are perfect for any white-tie event. Add jewelry or if you feel bold enough go for white gloves.
Instagram has intensified the pressure to ace dress codes. "It has to be a gown, it needs to be past the ankle and you need to incorporate an element of drama." The beige one is a bit grandma-y ?? Asos also have nice affordable elegant dresses or TK Maxx. I'd do what someone else has suggested and try and find photos of similar events at the venue with a bit of googling, so you can make sure you're pitching it right. If you're still unsure, I'd go classic shapes in black, then you can't go wrong. Can you look for pictures of previous events online and see what people were wearing?
